Workplace Mediation FAQs: A Guide for Employers and Employees

Below we’ve outlined the most frequently asked questions (FAQs) about workplace mediation:

1. Understanding Mediation

What is a mediator?

A mediator is an impartial, trained professional who helps people in conflict have constructive conversations and reach a mutually acceptable resolution. They do not take sides, make judgments, or impose outcomes. Instead, they facilitate dialogue, ensure fairness, and guide parties towards practical agreements that improve working relationships.

What is workplace mediation?

Mediation is a voluntary, confidential process led by an impartial mediator who helps parties find a mutually acceptable resolution. It’s about rebuilding working relationships, not deciding who is right or wrong.

When should mediation be used?

Mediation is most effective when conflict is identified early—before formal disciplinary or grievance procedures are triggered. It can also be used after a grievance or disciplinary to restore and repair working relationships, helping parties move forward constructively once formal processes have concluded.

How many parties can come to mediation?

Workplace mediation usually involves two parties, such as an employee and their manager or two colleagues. However, mediation can also be adapted for multiparty disputes — for example, whole teams or several individuals — if everyone agrees to take part and the mediator feels it is manageable. In these cases, the mediator may use smaller group sessions or longer meetings to ensure fairness and confidentiality.

What types of disputes can mediation resolve?

Workplace mediation can address a wide variety of work-related conflicts, including:

• Communication breakdowns between colleagues or teams
• Personality clashes that affect collaboration
• Bullying or harassment allegations where relationships need repairing
• Line manager–employee disputes over management style, workload or expectations
• Team conflict affecting morale and productivity
• Disagreements about roles and responsibilities or unclear boundaries
• Performance-related disputes where feedback has caused tension
• Flexible working or shift pattern disagreements between staff and managers
• Return-to-work issues after sickness absence or maternity leave
• Conflict during organisational change (e.g. restructuring, mergers or new policies)
• Workplace culture concerns such as fairness, respect or inclusion

2. The Process

Is mediation confidential?

Yes. Everything discussed in mediation stays private unless both parties agree otherwise. This creates a safe space for open dialogue.

What is the process for workplace mediation?

The process typically follows these steps:

• Referral or Request – Mediation is suggested by HR, a manager or requested directly by an employee.
• Initial Contact – The mediator contacts both parties, usually about a week before the mediation, to introduce themselves, explain the process, and answer any questions.
• Agreement to Mediate – A document signed by both parties confirming confidentiality, impartiality, and commitment to the process.
• Individual Meetings – On the day, the mediator begins with private meetings to hear each party’s perspective.
• Joint Mediation Session – If both parties are comfortable, the mediator brings them together to discuss issues, explore solutions, and rebuild communication.
• Agreement and Next Steps – By the end of the day, the aim is to reach a practical agreement and decide how the new working relationship will move forward.
• Follow-Up Call – A month later, the mediator checks in with both parties to review progress and ensure the agreement is working.

What is an Agreement to Mediate document?

It’s a short written agreement signed by all parties and the mediator before mediation begins. It sets out the principles of mediation — confirming that it is voluntary, confidential, and impartial.

The document explains the mediator’s role, outlines ground rules, and ensures everyone understands the process. It is not legally binding, but it provides a clear framework for constructive discussions and helps build trust in the process.

Can mediation be used within an HR process?

Yes. Mediation is often introduced by HR as an informal step to resolve disputes before formal procedures are triggered. It complements grievance and disciplinary processes by offering a voluntary, confidential space to rebuild relationships. HR arranges the mediation but does not direct the discussion, ensuring impartiality. Agreements reached can be integrated into HR follow-up, if both parties agree.

3. Practicalities

Who can request mediation?

Employees, line managers, or HR can initiate mediation. It’s open to anyone experiencing workplace conflict.

What venue would be used?

Mediation usually takes place in a neutral, private setting arranged by the employer or mediator.

This could be a meeting space away from the usual workplace, or an external venue if neutrality is important. The key is that the space feels safe, confidential, and free from interruptions.

Will the mediator tell my employer about what was discussed?

No. The mediator does not report back on the details of discussions. This ensures confidentiality and builds trust in the process. If both parties consent, the outcome agreement may be shared with HR or a line manager to help keep the relationship on track — but this is entirely up to the individuals to agree.

How long does mediation take?

Most sessions last a full day, though complex disputes may require follow-ups.

What is the cost of mediation?

Workplace mediation with Citizens Advice LeicesterShire is charged at:

• £750 + VAT for a half-day session
• £1,200 + VAT for a full-day session

There are discounted rates for SMEs, micro-businesses and VCSEs.

Mediation is a cost-effective alternative to formal grievance or tribunal processes, which can take months and cost thousands in legal fees.

How do I book your services as a workplace mediator?

You can book workplace mediation through Citizens Advice LeicesterShire’s enquiry form on our Mediation & Training webpage. The team will discuss your needs, explain the process, and arrange a suitable date for the mediation.

Who pays for mediation?

In workplace mediation, the employer usually covers the cost as part of their HR and employee
relations strategy. This ensures employees can access mediation without financial barriers.

4. Outcomes

What happens if mediation fails?

If no agreement is reached, parties can still pursue formal grievance or legal routes. Mediation doesn’t remove those rights—it simply offers a quicker, less adversarial alternative.

What are the benefits of choosing workplace mediation?

Workplace mediation offers early, cost-effective resolution of disputes. It is confidential, voluntary, and impartial, helping rebuild trust and communication rather than focusing on blame. Mediation reduces stress, improves morale, and supports HR strategies by preventing costly grievances or tribunal claims. Agreements are flexible and tailored to the workplace, making mediation a practical and positive choice for employers and employees alike.

Can mediation work when work relationships have completely broken down?

Yes. Mediation can still be effective even when relationships feel completely broken down. It provides a safe, confidential space to clear the air, rebuild communication and reduce stress.

For example, if someone is off work due to stress, mediation can support a constructive conversation about concerns and help agree on practical steps — such as a phased return to work — to make the future working relationship more manageable.

Find out more about workplace mediation and conflict resolution training on our website.

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